Yes I know it’s been a long time coming, but I have finally overcome the procrastination and am sitting down to write this blog. One month ago Ilona and I were in Johannesburg waiting for a flight to the UK, having come to the end of one of the most important times in our relationship, and also probably our whole lives at that point. We have both been amazed at our luck with transport over the past few months, with no lost luggage, no real delays (apart from in Colombia, but that was a bit of an adventure) and no really sketchy parts where we feared for our lives (apart from in Colombia once again, where bus drivers were crazy). Our flight was at 8:15 in the evening, so we had a lot of time to kill at the hostel and airport, so we spent most of it reading and at the airport, sitting in a cafe watching a bit of the coverage of the royal wedding.
As our departure time neared, we made our way to the departure lounge, thanking the smart mother who let her kids run wild before they got on the flight, so they were tired out by the time people wanted a bit of peace. Our flight was an overnighter, so once again, I struggled to sleep in the cramped conditions on the plane, swearing that I would save super hard next time I was on a long haul flight so I could afford a business class seat (it’s never going to happen though, I’m just dreaming). We landed at about 6:30am on the 30th of April, made our way out of Heathrow and on to the underground, for my first experience on the tube. With all of the different lines I got a little confused, but we made our way to Black Horse Road in Walthamstow (where my parents once lived) and were then picked up by Ilona’s aunt and uncle Coral and Elfneh.
I got my first look at a proper English suburb, which was just so different to what I’m used to back home. All the houses are attached and are essentially one big long building down each street. Though I had seen them before in pictures and all that, it was strange to see the whole suburb like that and experience such a different way of living. Our time in London was spent sightseeing for my benefit as Ilona had seen much of it before. We hit the usual spots like the London Eye, Buckingham Palace, Big Ben and the House of Parliament, Westminster Abbey (which had a line of people waiting outside that stretched about 2kms down the road!), Camden Markets, Hyde Park and the New Zealand War Memorial. We quickly discovered that eating out was horrendously expensive, so we bought a bit of food from home when we went out. We did, however, have my first proper English pub meal in a place off Oxford St.
After a few short days, we set off again, jumping on the train to Oxford to meet up with Ilona’s Uncle Paul and Aunt Suzanne, along with their two girls Klara and Norah. Oxford is a really nice little town and I was looking forward to doing a bit of exploring, especially because of its historical significance and the University. Exploring was very interesting as a lot of the buildings in the University area were very old, set along cobbled roads and very beautiful. We picnicked in the park near where some of the Harry Potter films were shot and also visited the Natural History Museum, which, despite being small, was packed with skeletons, stuffed animals and fossils.
Everybody in Oxford seemed to cycle, so one of the evenings all six of us rounded up a bunch of bikes and rode alongside the canal towards a nice garden pub just out of the main town, watching rowing crews row past on the way, making me wish I could be rowing again. Unfortunately at this stage, I was beginning to get very swollen glands and pain inside my mouth, along with headaches, nausea and dizziness. By the next day it had become worse, so Paul called up the doctor for me and they referred me on to an out of hours dentist (it was a Saturday) where I went and who quickly diagnosed the problem as being an infected gum flap over my lower right wisdom tooth. She prescribed me some antibiotics and sent me on my way.
Later that afternoon we jumped on a train to Colwyn Bay in Wales, for us to meet Ilona’s Grandpa. At this stage I was in pretty bad shape and couldn’t chew anything, only being able to imbibe liquids due to the pain in my mouth. Ilona’s Grandpa lives in a retirement home in his own self contained flat which was too small for Ilona and I to stay in, so we were able to use the guest flat that luckily was available. The next two days were spent touring around Colwyn Bay and the surrounding villages, visiting spots of interest and meeting people that Ilona’s man-about-town Grandpa was always seeing.
Unfortunately I was progressively getting worse and the infection in my mouth was spreading, with what looked like ulcers popping up on my tongue, inside my cheeks and on the roof of my mouth and the dizziness and fatigue reaching an all time high. Sightseeing was made a little easier by the fact that we walked quite slow for the sake of Ilona’s Grandpa, but even still, I couldn’t last long and would be resting in bed for a fair chunk of the day. Thankfully, they were single beds and were very, very comfortable. While I was bedridden, Ilona turned into super-girlfriend and waited on me hand and foot, going out to the supermarket to buy me nice soups (we couldn’t make any because the kitchen was too ill-equipped) and also smoothies. It was very nice of her and I felt bad for making her do it, but she would just keep reminding me about her time being sick in Peru and that it was just payback.
After a couple of days in Wales we headed up to Leeds to meet up with Ilona’s Grandma. I was still on liquids and she had very nicely made me some soup, which was very tasty. Though I was dying to eat solid food and was too tempted to resist bites of several tasty morsels (and regretting it immediately as it hurt too much), I was glad I could still have soup and was thankfully not getting sick of it by that stage.
Most of our time in Leeds was spent walking around parks and abbeys that had been destroyed over time, which meant lots of artsy-fartsy photos and complaints from Ilona whenever I tried to take one of her! Her Grandma was also fussing over me a lot, which was nice, but she never let me help with anything like cleaning up or cooking, which made me feel a bit too useless and bad for being waited on all the time! I’m not used to it! I did visit the local doctor though who realised that I had been wrongly diagnosed, and due to this, had been given medication that had exacerbated the problem, causing me to develop oral thrush. He prescribed me some special mouthwash which cleared up the thrush almost straight away and also took a swab test from my mouth. On the morning of Friday the 13th, we were driven to the train station for our final stretch of our near 4 month journey. Our train went to York and then we changed over to complete the trip up to our new home town of Edinburgh.
Ilona’s Aunt Ruth was there waiting for us and we then hopped on a bus for the journey from Waverley Station in to Portobello. My first impressions of Edinburgh were very good; the huge stone tenements stretching down the roads and the castle standing tall in the middle of the city gave it a great sense of history and importance. Portobello is a nice little suburb in the north-east of Edinburgh, right on the Firth of Forth. It’s in a great position as it’s quite close to town, Holyrood Park and Arthur’s Seat, while still feeling away from the hustle and bustle of the inner city. Edinburgh itself is much smaller than I thought it would be which is great because it means that everything you would need it within close proximity.
Settling in to our new home has been easy, helped by the fact that Ilona got a job almost immediately. For the first three weeks we have been here she has been working as a nanny, looking after three under five year olds (and two dogs!), earning good money and gaining some valuable experience in childcare. I have been having a much harder time finding a job, spending most of my days looking for available jobs on all sorts of websites, going to a couple of interviews and trying to stave off severe boredom. Without Ilona to keep me company during the day I have had little to do, so have been on a few walks around, checking out my new neighbourhood and Holyrood Park. One day I went on a long walk up to Arthurs Seat, the hill in the middle of the park that offers panoramic views of Edinburgh, and is allegedly one of the possible sites of Arthur’s Court of Camelot.
On our second Saturday here we had been invited to a céilidh (pronounced kay-lee); a traditional Gaelic social gathering which involves folk music and traditional dance, celebrating two of Ruth and Gordon’s friends leaving to go live in Norway. Unfortunately, this was the same night as the Champions League final between Manchester United and Barcelona. Ilona and I both went and took part in a few dances, which were a lot of fun, but I along with Gordon; Ruth’s partner, snuck out and ran back home (which was luckily only just around the corner) to watch most of the game. I came back at half time and again when the game had finished and took in a few more dances and also tried haggis for the first time. I had expected to not like it at all, but was surprised as I enjoyed it more and more with every mouthful. I can understand why a lot of people wouldn’t like it, but the spices made it a lot more palatable.
Over the first few weeks of living in Edinburgh, while I was trying to fill all the free time I had, Ilona was desperately trying to find some time to relax, as her nannying job was taking up so much of her energy. So much so, that by the end of her three weeks, all she wanted to do was relax and do nothing, but of course that would never be the case and she had an interview and trial at a local cafe to work as a waitress and barista. At this point she is on a two week trial period to see if she works well there and if they want to offer her full time employment, so fingers crossed! As for me, I’ve been able to pick up a job working behind the bad at a pub that’s about 15 minutes away on a bike. It’s called the Sheep Heid Inn and is Scotland’s oldest pub, originally established in 1360! The history behind the place is so hard to comprehend, especially coming from a country that has only really seen western civilisation for the past 200-odd years. Unfortunately it’s only a part time job at the moment, so I’m still on the lookout for a more permanent job.
Lately we have been searching for prospective flats in the area, having gone to have a look at a couple, but not liking much of what we have seen. There is one flat that we are going to have a look at in the next couple of days that we both absolutely love the look of from the pictures we’ve seen, so we’re holding out for that one; otherwise we’re not in any real rush to move out until we have found exactly what we’re looking for.
On another note, we are both looking forward to Friday because Rowan and Claire arrive in Edinburgh and will be staying with us for a while. It’s going to be nice having people from home around as it will give us a bit of a reminder of what we’re missing back in New Zealand! Like us, they have decided to come to the UK and call Edinburgh home for a while as they do a bit of overseas travelling and seeing the world.
After this blog, I don’t know how regular the updates will come as our lives will start to see some form of regularity and sameness, so they won’t be as exciting as some of our previous ones. We will try to get one up every few weeks or so just to give people a general update, but there probably won’t be much interesting content until we begin to start travelling again.
So here’s to the next 18 month or so of living in our new home of Edinburgh!
Mike.